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findingfriends2026-03-29 10:13 am
churin) wrote in findingfriends2026-03-29 10:13 am
hi hi!
Is there an interesting story behind your username?my username is actually just a JP nickname for my favorite character, Aventurine from honkai star rail! you'll see me mention him a lot hehe
Location and language(s):i live in the USA and speak only english! i am currently learning japanese, though.
Age range (e.g 20s, 30s, etc.):30's
Hot button/deal breaker issues that will likely lead to unfriending:all i ask is that you don't be a jerk or a bigot/etc, that's it really. i'm pretty chill otherwise.
Do you have an "About Me" post new friends can read to get a sense of who you are, the people you talk about regularly, etc.? i DO have a sticky/intro post on my journal that provides a bit more info about me!
Is your profile up-to-date or at all useful?i'd say pretty accurate, yeah!
List a few things you think it's important new friends know about you right away:i love aventurine --
You mostly write about:fandom stuff and personal/irl stuff
You never or very rarely write about:serious/heavy personal stuff. if i do ever write about that, then it will have a proper warning on it.
Is your journal mostly public, locked, or a mix of public and locked?my journal is open to the public!
Do you use filters for certain types of posts (e.g. fandom-related posts, or posts about sex, or mental health issues, etc.)?i do! i make sure to tag my entries appropriately.
Your posting frequency (e.g. daily, every few days, weekly, etc.):i'd say a few times a week
Does your journal frequently include any of the following: memes, linkspams, gifs, photos, videos, etc?the occasional image, but that's not very common.
What do you enjoy most about journaling?opening up, talking about myself more and talking to people!
How often do you read your friends list (e.g. daily, every other day, once a week, etc.)?i try to read at LEAST once a day
You really enjoy reading about:you mean on dreamwidth? just about anything, i'm not picky
You have very little interest in reading about: N/A
Your thoughts on journals that regularly include any of the following: memes, linkspams, gifs, photos, videos, etc?i don't mind them!
When it comes to comments on your posts, what matters more -- quality or quantity?i have no preference. i guess quality?
Do you unfriend people who don't comment much, even if you know they are reading you regularly?
nope! if you can't comment much, then it's all good. i imagine there's a good reason behind it.
What is your approach when it comes to commenting on other journals?i just comment whatever's comes to mind, if that makes any sense. of course it'll be related to the entry's subject matter
When you friend someone, but things don't really click, do you unfriend them without warning, or do you send them a note first? How do you prefer to be unfriended in similar circumstances?i never really had to do this before, so i really don't know how to answer. i'm not an unfriender i suppose, LOL
AND LASTLY
Friending memes often ask people to list their favourite TV shows, movies, books, etc., but more often than not, those aren't things people actually write about in their journal. Do you have any favourite TV shows, movies, books, etc., that you DO often write about -- not necessarily in a fandom sort of way, just in general?i looove talking about anything hoyoverse (genshin/honkai/zenless) and whatever other online/gacha game i'm playing at the time!
Any final thoughts you'd like to share with potential new friends? hello! i hope we can become friends and get to know each other more ^-^ i'm pretty chill i'd say!
Location and language(s):i live in the USA and speak only english! i am currently learning japanese, though.
Age range (e.g 20s, 30s, etc.):30's
Hot button/deal breaker issues that will likely lead to unfriending:all i ask is that you don't be a jerk or a bigot/etc, that's it really. i'm pretty chill otherwise.
Do you have an "About Me" post new friends can read to get a sense of who you are, the people you talk about regularly, etc.? i DO have a sticky/intro post on my journal that provides a bit more info about me!
Is your profile up-to-date or at all useful?i'd say pretty accurate, yeah!
List a few things you think it's important new friends know about you right away:i love aventurine --
You mostly write about:fandom stuff and personal/irl stuff
You never or very rarely write about:serious/heavy personal stuff. if i do ever write about that, then it will have a proper warning on it.
Is your journal mostly public, locked, or a mix of public and locked?my journal is open to the public!
Do you use filters for certain types of posts (e.g. fandom-related posts, or posts about sex, or mental health issues, etc.)?i do! i make sure to tag my entries appropriately.
Your posting frequency (e.g. daily, every few days, weekly, etc.):i'd say a few times a week
Does your journal frequently include any of the following: memes, linkspams, gifs, photos, videos, etc?the occasional image, but that's not very common.
What do you enjoy most about journaling?opening up, talking about myself more and talking to people!
How often do you read your friends list (e.g. daily, every other day, once a week, etc.)?i try to read at LEAST once a day
You really enjoy reading about:you mean on dreamwidth? just about anything, i'm not picky
You have very little interest in reading about: N/A
Your thoughts on journals that regularly include any of the following: memes, linkspams, gifs, photos, videos, etc?i don't mind them!
When it comes to comments on your posts, what matters more -- quality or quantity?i have no preference. i guess quality?
Do you unfriend people who don't comment much, even if you know they are reading you regularly?
nope! if you can't comment much, then it's all good. i imagine there's a good reason behind it.
What is your approach when it comes to commenting on other journals?i just comment whatever's comes to mind, if that makes any sense. of course it'll be related to the entry's subject matter
When you friend someone, but things don't really click, do you unfriend them without warning, or do you send them a note first? How do you prefer to be unfriended in similar circumstances?i never really had to do this before, so i really don't know how to answer. i'm not an unfriender i suppose, LOL
AND LASTLY
Friending memes often ask people to list their favourite TV shows, movies, books, etc., but more often than not, those aren't things people actually write about in their journal. Do you have any favourite TV shows, movies, books, etc., that you DO often write about -- not necessarily in a fandom sort of way, just in general?i looove talking about anything hoyoverse (genshin/honkai/zenless) and whatever other online/gacha game i'm playing at the time!
Any final thoughts you'd like to share with potential new friends? hello! i hope we can become friends and get to know each other more ^-^ i'm pretty chill i'd say!
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so I guess this sounds a bit weird but although we don't really have a lot in common, you sound like such a kind and fun person, so I would still love to try being friends? (we do both like MCR though ♥ )
I have met some good friends on here before that hardly share any common interests with me and I am also interested in learning about things I am not familiar with - but of course I could understand if you'd rather not add me. Anyway, asking doesn't hurt, right?
:)
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